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	<title>Comments on: Getting to Know Me&#8230;</title>
	<link>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/</link>
	<description>Helping you find your purpose and navigate your quarter-life crisis in style</description>
	<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: kel</title>
		<link>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2187</link>
		<dc:creator>kel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 19:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm in the "ask questions" phase.  Problem is that I don't have the answer...at least I don't have an answer I can give myself.  Seriously, if I don't have the answers about what I want...then who does?  

I think your journal idea is interesting...I've always written, I have a few from years ago (some I've lost) - these are more of a diary type thing, but I might go thru and see if anything sticks out.  

Interesting..very interesting.
~K</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m in the &#8220;ask questions&#8221; phase.  Problem is that I don&#8217;t have the answer&#8230;at least I don&#8217;t have an answer I can give myself.  Seriously, if I don&#8217;t have the answers about what I want&#8230;then who does?  </p>
<p>I think your journal idea is interesting&#8230;I&#8217;ve always written, I have a few from years ago (some I&#8217;ve lost) - these are more of a diary type thing, but I might go thru and see if anything sticks out.  </p>
<p>Interesting..very interesting.<br />
~K</p>
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		<title>By: WeightingGame</title>
		<link>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2185</link>
		<dc:creator>WeightingGame</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 19:02:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2185</guid>
		<description>oh my gosh, I do this way too much:

focus on the past (who you were) or future (who you might become) rather than present (who you are).

It is such a crucial lesson to learn - and I'm still trying to hammer it into my brain - that we are not our pasts. Mistakes may be made but we don't need to berate ourselves for them and let them drag us down. I need to look at them more as learning experiences. Thanks for your reminder.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh my gosh, I do this way too much:</p>
<p>focus on the past (who you were) or future (who you might become) rather than present (who you are).</p>
<p>It is such a crucial lesson to learn - and I&#8217;m still trying to hammer it into my brain - that we are not our pasts. Mistakes may be made but we don&#8217;t need to berate ourselves for them and let them drag us down. I need to look at them more as learning experiences. Thanks for your reminder.</p>
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		<title>By: Alison</title>
		<link>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2184</link>
		<dc:creator>Alison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 18:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2184</guid>
		<description>funny thing is, it took someone else pointing this out to me.  I apparantly kept repeating "if money wasn't an issue and I could do anything, I'd be a doctor."  I had no idea I had been repeating this for years until someone pointed it out to me and told me if I really wanted this, I could make it happen.  I was blown away and almost embarrassed that I hadn't been listening to myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>funny thing is, it took someone else pointing this out to me.  I apparantly kept repeating &#8220;if money wasn&#8217;t an issue and I could do anything, I&#8217;d be a doctor.&#8221;  I had no idea I had been repeating this for years until someone pointed it out to me and told me if I really wanted this, I could make it happen.  I was blown away and almost embarrassed that I hadn&#8217;t been listening to myself.</p>
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		<title>By: Cynthia</title>
		<link>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2178</link>
		<dc:creator>Cynthia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:56:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2178</guid>
		<description>26 will be when I'll devote more time to myself to figure this out. I'm starting when I go away for my mini-vacation. My laptop in tow with a journal in hand, I think it's time to figure out what makes ole' Cynthia tick! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>26 will be when I&#8217;ll devote more time to myself to figure this out. I&#8217;m starting when I go away for my mini-vacation. My laptop in tow with a journal in hand, I think it&#8217;s time to figure out what makes ole&#8217; Cynthia tick! <img src='http://semicharmedwife.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: MizFit</title>
		<link>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2177</link>
		<dc:creator>MizFit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2177</guid>
		<description>Im getting there.
at this pace by the time I turn 50 Ill be all kinds of good friends with me!

Miz.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im getting there.<br />
at this pace by the time I turn 50 Ill be all kinds of good friends with me!</p>
<p>Miz.</p>
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		<title>By: verybadcat</title>
		<link>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2176</link>
		<dc:creator>verybadcat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/07/16/getting-to-know-me/#comment-2176</guid>
		<description>It's a work in progress. I'm never sure how I'm doing. All the introspection in the world doesn't seem to bring me answers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a work in progress. I&#8217;m never sure how I&#8217;m doing. All the introspection in the world doesn&#8217;t seem to bring me answers.</p>
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