Comments on: Get Out Your Label Maker http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/ Helping you find your purpose and navigate your quarter-life crisis in style Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:13:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Thank you! | Semi-Charmed Wife http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1440 Thank you! | Semi-Charmed Wife Tue, 24 Jun 2008 11:23:28 +0000 http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1440 [...] recognize until Kelli and VeryBadCat pointed it out to me. I’ve been working on releasing my “Fighter” label, which entails undoing about 30 years of internal conditioning. As perverse as it sounds, I get [...] […] recognize until Kelli and VeryBadCat pointed it out to me. I’ve been working on releasing my “Fighter” label, which entails undoing about 30 years of internal conditioning. As perverse as it sounds, I get […]

]]> By: Self-Acceptance vs. Self-Improvement | Semi-Charmed Wife http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1295 Self-Acceptance vs. Self-Improvement | Semi-Charmed Wife Tue, 17 Jun 2008 05:52:09 +0000 http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1295 [...] of my personal development projects. There’s definitely some truth to that. As I mentioned in a previous post, one of the labels I’ve been wearing for a while is Screwup. I’ve spent most of my [...] […] of my personal development projects. There’s definitely some truth to that. As I mentioned in a previous post, one of the labels I’ve been wearing for a while is Screwup. I’ve spent most of my […]

]]> By: Giving Up the Fight | Semi-Charmed Wife http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1282 Giving Up the Fight | Semi-Charmed Wife Mon, 16 Jun 2008 12:38:23 +0000 http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1282 [...] My typical M.O. with situations like this is to torture myself for weeks with long internal battles about which is the appropriate path. I’m going to do my best not to do that this time. (Remember–I’m no longer a Fighter! I’ve become an Adapter.) [...] […] My typical M.O. with situations like this is to torture myself for weeks with long internal battles about which is the appropriate path. I’m going to do my best not to do that this time. (Remember–I’m no longer a Fighter! I’ve become an Adapter.) […]

]]> By: elisha http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1245 elisha Thu, 12 Jun 2008 00:04:27 +0000 http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1245 Wow, I can't wait to see what you will do with Sacred Contracts...You are already more prepared than I was to look at your archetypes. Wow, I can’t wait to see what you will do with Sacred Contracts…You are already more prepared than I was to look at your archetypes.

]]> By: Kate http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1244 Kate Wed, 11 Jun 2008 23:59:33 +0000 http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1244 I need to do soem thinking abuot my labels--I think I need to let go of the Victim label, but I"m not sure what to replace it with yet. I need to do soem thinking abuot my labels–I think I need to let go of the Victim label, but I”m not sure what to replace it with yet.

]]> By: verybadcat http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1242 verybadcat Wed, 11 Jun 2008 14:29:48 +0000 http://semicharmedwife.com/2008/06/11/get-out-your-label-maker/#comment-1242 Survivor/Sufferrer/Martyr to Optimizer/Guardian (of myself and my own interests). Instead of choosing to suffer, I will choose to make the best of a situation I can't change and I will choose to honor my own interests when I do have influence. (in an assertive but not aggressive manner, of course.) Faker to Self Starter/Achiever- it's high time that I stop beating myself up for my lack of education and the way that I've come to be where I am and started taking credit for what I've achieved with limited resources and opportunities. It's also time that I start recognizing and believing in what others see in me, instead of being terrified that they'll find me out. Loner to Lover. I need to make a decision to trust people who are worthy of it and open up instead of playing it safe and withdrawing at the slightest doubt. :) Survivor/Sufferrer/Martyr to Optimizer/Guardian (of myself and my own interests). Instead of choosing to suffer, I will choose to make the best of a situation I can’t change and I will choose to honor my own interests when I do have influence. (in an assertive but not aggressive manner, of course.)

Faker to Self Starter/Achiever- it’s high time that I stop beating myself up for my lack of education and the way that I’ve come to be where I am and started taking credit for what I’ve achieved with limited resources and opportunities. It’s also time that I start recognizing and believing in what others see in me, instead of being terrified that they’ll find me out.

Loner to Lover. I need to make a decision to trust people who are worthy of it and open up instead of playing it safe and withdrawing at the slightest doubt.

:)

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