May 14 2008
The “Tiny Changes” Strategy
The idea for today’s post comes to us courtesy of Stephanie Qilao at Back in Skinny Jeans. Every Tuesday, Stephanie posts about ways to make “two tiny changes” to improve and health-ify (yes, it’s a word–as of now) your life without triggering your Inner Resistance Monster. I read her post yesterday and loved it so much that I wanted to feature it today.
Finished already? Wow–that was fast! Now, let’s take a look at a few of the exercises Stephanie suggested:
Stop thinking and over analyzing. Get a pen & paper and start free flow writing for 1 minute on tiny changes that pop into your head. Again, don’t analyze or judge during the 1 minute, just write whatever comes out. Now, look at the list, and pick 3 things that you could do right now, and do them. Again, no ifs, buts, or I-can’t-until. Just do it.
Here’s my brainstorming list of tiny changes:Â The three highlighted in red are the three I chose to do right now!
- Sit quietly–no TV, no internet, no phone–for 10 minutes every day when I walk in the door after work. (I’m working up to a 10-minute meditation for my “daily routines” challenge, but my own Inner Resistance Monster HATES the idea of meditating.)
- Use Stevia in my morning tea instead of Splenda or agave nectar.
- Stock my desk with fresh fruit at the beginning of the week for snacks.
- On days when I feel like I can’t do 30 minutes of creative writing, at least do a 5-minute writing exercise.
- Don’t check my work email at home.
- Switch to water instead of Crystal Light. (I drink OCEANS of Crystal Light.)
- Go outside for a 10-minute walk at least once during every (non-rainy) workday.
- Check email once every three hours instead of obsessively every 10 minutes.
What’s the one thing you’ve been putting off recently? Making an uncomfortable phone call? Talking to the bill collector? Going to the doctor? Make it a point this week to stop putting off that thing and get it over with and do it. You have to do it anyway and putting it off only makes things worse not better, and it sure isn’t going to go away the longer you ignore it. It will be one less thing on your To-Do list.
What’s one thing I’ve been putting off recently? Well, two significant ones come to mind. One is finishing the short story I’m entering in a literary contest (due May 31!) and the other is finishing up a mostly-done manuscript. I probably won’t be able to get both of those done this week, but I should be able to do the following by the end of the month (1) finish the short story & submit it; (2) finish outlining the rest of my book; and (3) finish editing the first 2/3 of the book. That gives me 18 days…
What three tiny changes did you pick to do right now? What have you been putting off that you pledged to do this week (or month)?













(man I love your posts!!)
1. have a conversation with a family member which Ive been AVOIDING.
2. finish NF book proposal
3.hmmmm, still mulling.
Ill get back with you
M.
1. Figure out what direction I want to take my blog.
2. Write an article for another blog.
3. Have a convo that I’m sure will be quite devastating.
Join the Y! Doing it tonight after work.
Listen to a marketing training. Doing it tonight after the Y.
Put a portion of each paycheck directly into my savings account. I get paid tomorrow, so I can start this now, even though it will only be about $50 right now per paycheck. That’s better than $0, right?
Incredible. Absolutely incredible. This is just what I needed. Right. now. Thanks!! I can’t do the exercise right this minute, but tonight my friend, I will be making tiny lists of tiny changes.
3. commence ACTING AS IF. Faking it until I make it in a certain writerrealm.
THANKS FOR THIS.
Ive been thinking about it all morning…
M.
Excellent post. Thanks for feeding us all this soul-nourishing goodness!
1. Start drinking more water and green tea and fewer Diet Cokes and less coffee.
2. Count to 10 before I respond to my son when he’s whining or having a temper tantrum.
3. Wake up 30 min. early to shower and dress nicely before starting my day. (As a WAHM, I often leave the house in yoga pants and a sweatshirt planning to take my shower and dress during the baby’s nap, but by then I have a list a mile long of to-dos and no time to shower until my husband comes home.)
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